More On Windlight Skies and Lighting

Previously, I posted my thoughts on Windlight lighting & skies, and I showed a few pictures that I took in Windlight with various presets and parts of my day cycle.

When I was creating my presets, I was basically trying to strike a balance between the old viewer and the new. Pretty skies, pretty lighting effects, but not quite so hyper-realistic shading on avatars. I think I succeeded; it’s a day cycle that I really like! And hey, maybe no one else agrees, and that’s ok, but since a few folks have asked me if they could try them out themselves, I thought I’d offer them up for download. :) You will have to extract them into the x:\Program Files\SecondLife\app_settings\windlight\ folder (where “x” is your primary hard drive, or whatever drive you have SL™ installed on). Don’t worry about extracting them into the “skies” folder, because they are already setup to go there.

So here you go - you wanna try my WL settings for yourself, have at it! Not all of my presets are included, just my day cycle keys. For those of you that don’t know how to set up a custom day cycle, read on. :) For those of you that already know how, just skip the rest of the post.

Congratulate Me, I Broke My Blog!

For the whopping 2 of you that actually read this, I definitely feel that I am deserving a pat on the back for completely screwing up my blog.

This is not normally a problem for me, I don’t usually go about breaking things… but WordPress kept screaming at me to update to 2.5.1 even though I had (about fifty freakin’ times) and it was annoying me. So I did it the fifty-first time (same thing, every time) and for some reason it went absolutely haywire - so, I downloaded WordPress again, deleted all the files from my server, and reuploaded.

Only, I forgot to back up a few things. D’oh!

And WordPress still thinks it needs an upgrade.

Slider Surgery And You: AKA Basic Human Proportion

As a shopper and a designer as well, I find I spend a lot of time modifying prims to fit various avatar shapes (either mooding others’ stuff to fit my own, or helping a customer adjust my stuff to fit their avatar). One thing that I have learned is that the “ideal” for each person can be widely variable. :)

However, I also have noticed an alarming trend in head size vs. body size, eye size vs. head size, and hip widths. Don’t get me wrong here, I have a “hippy” avatar, and again, everybody’s ideal is different. And that’s wonderful! You can look however you want to in SL™, and that’s a great thing. BUT, there are some things to keep in mind if you don’t want to appear somehow alien. (Um, unless you know, you’re going for alien.)

Now, in my personal opinion, almost everyone in SL™ is way too tall, including me! But, it gets tiresome dancing in midair, and/or having to adjust every kiss pose set you buy so that you suck face, rather than suck forehead or chin. Height is not so bad though, since nearly everyone is so tall, but I submit that despite everyone being 6′-7′ tall, we can still have some reasonable proportions.

Let’s start with faces.

In general your eyes should be halfway down your head. Your head should then be approximately five eyes wide. (Imagine one eye on either side of your actual eyes, and one eye in between.) Your nose should have its bottom halfway between your eyes and your chin. Mouth should then be halfway between bottom of nose and chin. The corners of your mouth should align approximately with the center of your eyes. Ears should align at the top with your eyebrows and at the bottom with the bottom of your nose.

Now I realize that these “rules” of proportion make it sound like you are limited in what you can do with a face. But that’s not at all true. These are just approximate guidelines - they don’t have to be exact, and then you have subtle variations like fullness of lips, width of nose, upturn of nose, the tilt of the eye, etc.

Moving on to the body, etc…

On average, a human being is approximately 6-8 “heads” tall. Shoulders should be nearly wide enough to sit three of your heads on. I know we females like to be a bit on the “leggy” side, and that’s alright - but as a guideline you should be about 4 “heads” from hip to toes, 2 “heads” from chest to navel (and with 1 “head” for your actual head, that puts you right in between 6-8 heads tall :p).

Now, the size of a woman’s chest and hips can vary quite a lot, but I would gently, gently (I said EFFING GENTLY) “encourage” that you not give yourself a wasp’s waist in combination with a hippo’s hind end, but this could be one of those moments where my ideal and your ideal are widely different.

I’m not going to cover hands and feet - not really - but keep in mind in terms of arm length, that with your arms straight out to your sides, from end of middle finger to end of middle finger should be approximately your full height. :) Obviously everyone in SL™ sets their foot size rather small because otherwise we look like doofuses in prim shoes - BUT hand size, well your hands approximate size from wrist to middle fingertip should be about as long as your head is high.

Again, I’m not trying to tell you that you shouldn’t be creative if you are so inclined, but if you want a well-proportioned human shape, these are good guidelines. ;) I’ve seen a lot of fairly famous (and I won’t name names, really, I’m not looking for that particular bit of drama) who have obscenely large heads on obscenely small bodies - and it makes them look eerily alien to me.

A note to other designers: I won’t say that this affects my decisions on what to buy very often, except when it comes to hair. If I suspect for one minute that you’re going to suggest to me that I should choose to have an eerily large head to wear your hair right out of the box, I’m likely to just go somewhere where the designer has a better sense of proportion, whether I can modify it or not. ;) Just sayin’.

I’m also not sayin’ my av is anywhere near perfect - but due to my own personal tastes I have made an effort to make sure she is reasonably within these guidelines, though some tweaking here and there may be in order. :)

In SL™, though, where you can be anything you want to be, I do highly encourage experimentation, and if you want to roam the grid as an alien life form, I’m all for it. (Just don’t be a naked alien life form in PG areas, please?)

On Being Impossibly Shy

You might not think so, since I am fairly outspoken here, and am a content creator in SL™, and have photos of my av in various states of dress on Flickr, but I am, both in SL™ and RL, horribly, painfully, hopelessly shy.

I am rarely the first to say hello. I am rarely the first to say anything! I am an SL™ Mentor, but I do so quietly, away from crowded Welcome Areas and Orientation Islands. It even took me months to warm up to chatting in the MM group channel.

It takes me ages to make friends, because I am too quiet, too reserved, to put myself out there. I love meeting new people, but it takes me a while to warm up and feel comfortable. Around friends, I can be very outspoken, and have an excellent (if I do say so myself) sense of humor. I will laugh long and loud, joke and tease (good-naturedly, of course. I’m really never intentionally mean to anyone) and am lots of fun to have around.

The problem is, it really does take ages for me to warm up to people to that point. There have been countless times where my shyness has caused me to be branded “snobby” and/or “cold.”

On the up side, although I do not always enjoy being alone, I rarely find myself unable to be when I want to be. It gives me a lot of time to write, to paint, to draw, to read, and do the things I love doing. Which is not to say that I don’t love being around people, too, because I do. Except around those that I am close to, however, I tend to be more an observer than anything.

But there are always the drawbacks… the awkwardness around new people, the desire to get to know someone I find fascinating that is overpowered by my inability to strike up a simple conversation.

I’m working on this, because, although I can see the advantages in being the quiet, observant type, I have missed many opportunities to get to know some wonderful people that, for all I know, may have turned out to be very good friends, indeed.

In some ways, SL™ helps a little with this particular problem of mine. For one, at least for initial contact, I can “hide” behind my avatar. I can tell myself that whatever someone says or thinks about my av, that doesn’t really matter, because it’s not me. The only problem with this, is that, I am me, wherever I am. I am acutely aware of the difference between SL™ and RL, but, that does not mean that I can really detach myself in quite that extent from my av. I don’t say or do things in SL™ that are not, or do not come from, very real thoughts of mine. I don’t make friends in SL™ that I don’t number among my friends, in general. I don’t differentiate that way. I’ve tried at times, but I just can’t. If I call you my friend, you’re my friend. Wherever you are, or however I met you.

However, again on the positive side, I often have a lot of time to observe someone before a conversation is begun. I can see how they interact with others, determine whether they have a good sense of humor, whether or not they are kind, long before they start talking to me. At times, this has helped me make the determination of whether or not I’m really willing to step out of my comfort zone and make friends or not.

I am me, and mostly I am happy with me. I am not perfect, though, and there are things that I am working on. This hopelessly shy aspect of my personality is one of those things that I am working on. I think I can still take pleasure in being an observer, without being too terrified to say hello ever. ;)

Still Painting With Broad Brushes

The post that I am responding to here, has been up for several days now, but I only just stumbled upon it a little while ago. I’d like to respond to some of it, although I know that in many senses I am just wasting my breath. I really get the impression that people simply want to blame the entire Mental Mentors group for the actions of some… and it gets a lot frustrating, and a little hurtful. I love being part of the SL™ Mentors group, and being a Mental Mentor, too. I have made wonderful friends through both groups and activities associated with them.

So, even though I feel that I am wasting my breath… still I have to open my mouth. :)

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